God has much to say to me about the way I speak, my tone and the appropriate use of speech for love and blessing. Very early in my discipleship a friend directed me to the book of James. Knowing how much I love the gift of gab, my heart was pricked, and I began to take seriously the many reproofs regarding an uncontrolled tongue.
The thing is we know it's a lie. We know it's stinkin' thinkin'. Yet even when we agree that the wheel isn't making us stronger, we find it difficult to step off. We want to BE STRONG!